Advice needed on how to sell/give away/downsize?
Posted: June 1st, 2026, 5:37 pm
It's likely that later this year I'm going to have to downsize, possibly to somewhere with less privacy too, so I have a lot of clearing out to do. There are clothes for my ex-wife, clothes I bought for her while we were splitting up and lots bought on spec from China that have never been worn beyond perhaps trying on. Lots of lycra and PVC, plus latex and leather, also some chastity and bondage. Lots of clothes from China, both male and female, that are absurdly small and toys which turned out to be quite different from what I thought I was ordering. At the time I was earning good money so spending £100 a month on adult items from AliExpress wasn't an issue, but storing it all is becoming a problem.
I'm not concerned with making money from this, other than a handful of items of some value - Neosteel chastity belt, a couple of rubber catsuits, but I'm concerned about privacy which is a problem with the likes of eBay and Gumtree. What method do people suggest for selling. I'm thinking to upload photos via PostImages unless there's a better site. For the low value items I'm considering an honesty system - I'll post them at my expense if you make a donation to your local soup kitchen or community larder. But not sure about the other things. Thoughts? Obviously I'd wash or sanitise anything that had been opened even if never worn or used. Based in London UK.
I'm not concerned with making money from this, other than a handful of items of some value - Neosteel chastity belt, a couple of rubber catsuits, but I'm concerned about privacy which is a problem with the likes of eBay and Gumtree. What method do people suggest for selling. I'm thinking to upload photos via PostImages unless there's a better site. For the low value items I'm considering an honesty system - I'll post them at my expense if you make a donation to your local soup kitchen or community larder. But not sure about the other things. Thoughts? Obviously I'd wash or sanitise anything that had been opened even if never worn or used. Based in London UK.