Pleasurable ridicule & derision
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jane mackintosh
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Pleasurable ridicule & derision
What do members suggest are the most effective ways of attracting pleasurable ridicule, derision or even contempt for being rubber or rainwear fetishists or sissies, for those us seeking masochistic arousal by such means?
Re: Pleasurable ridicule & derision
Jane,
Do you mean ridicule in the bedroom, or out and about in public?
In my experience it is to dress the opposite of what is expected. My wife says she likes me in black, but I prefer to dress in clear plastic, which she always seems disappointed by and less attentive, but for some reason I can’t help but want her to see me fully nude behind the Mac, trousers, or whatever I am wearing. It turns me on to think she doesn’t want me dressed that way, not as a game (pretend distain) but actual disappointment.
But then, the next day, I always feel ashamed and worried that I might have pushed too far. I think in her mind I do it when I am stressed, I think it helps her to understand why, but in reality I am just a kinky sod who would wear plastic 24x7 if I could!
JM
Do you mean ridicule in the bedroom, or out and about in public?
In my experience it is to dress the opposite of what is expected. My wife says she likes me in black, but I prefer to dress in clear plastic, which she always seems disappointed by and less attentive, but for some reason I can’t help but want her to see me fully nude behind the Mac, trousers, or whatever I am wearing. It turns me on to think she doesn’t want me dressed that way, not as a game (pretend distain) but actual disappointment.
But then, the next day, I always feel ashamed and worried that I might have pushed too far. I think in her mind I do it when I am stressed, I think it helps her to understand why, but in reality I am just a kinky sod who would wear plastic 24x7 if I could!
JM